Even if You're in pain right now, give yourself some distance between thoughts and actions. Make a promise to myself I'll wait 24 hours and will not do anything drastic at this time. Or, wait a week. Thoughts and actions of two different thingsyour suicidal thoughts should not become a reality. Theres no time, no one pushes you to act on those thoughts immediately. Wait. Wait and put some distance between suicidal ideation and suicidal action. Suicidal thoughts can become even stronger if you take drugs or alcohol. It is important not to use non-prescription drugs or alcohol when you feel hopeless or think about suicide. Remove things that you could use to harm yourself, for example, pills, knives, razors, or firearms. If you can not do this, go to the place where you can feel safe. If you think you take an overdose, give medications to those who can return them to you one day at a time as you need them. Even people who feel just as bad as you feel now able to experience these feelings. Take a look for it. There is a very good chance that you are going to experience these feelings, no matter how much self-hatred, hopelessness, isolation, or are you currently experiencing. Just give yourself the time necessary and do not try to do it alone. Many of us have found that the first step to combating suicidal thoughts and feelings to share them with someone we trust. This may be a friend, doctor, clergy member, teacher, family doctor, coach or an experienced consultant in the end trust. Find someone you trust and let them know how bad things are. Do not let fear, shame, embarrassment and preventing you from seeking help. Just talking about how you came to this point in your life can free a lot of pressure thats, the creation and help you find a way to cope. Why do I feel this way? Many kinds of emotional pain can lead to suicidal thoughts. The cause of this pain are unique to each of us, and our ability to cope with the pain differs from person to person. Do not listen to those who tell you that this is not enough to be suicidal about. We are all different. What could be more tolerable to one person may not be tolerable to you. However, there are some common factors that can lead us to experience suicidal thoughts and feelings. Loss, depression, anxiety disorders, diseases, drug and alcohol addiction,
financial, legal or school problems, grief or loss and other life difficulties may
all this creates a deep emotional experience. In addition, they interfere with our ability to solve the problem of
. Even if you can not see it now, it almost always other options
to these problems. Mental health, such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and all >> << treatable with changes in lifestyle, treatment and medication. Most people who seek
help in solving their problems and to make constructive changes in your life
improve the situation and recover. Even if you've got to treat disorders before, or
If Youve already attempted to resolve your problem, you should be aware that
it is often necessary to try several different solutions before the right solution or combination
solutions can be found. Almost all problems can be treated or resolved. If you can not think of solutions other than suicide, it is nothing but solutions >> << does not exist, and what you are currently not able to see them. Intense emotional pain felt by now you can distort your thinking
so that it becomes harder and harder to see possible ways of solving problems, or to connect
those who can offer help. Doctors, counselors, or friends or relatives,
might help you see solutions that otherwise may not be obvious to you. Give them a chance to help the
. Although it may seem that your pain and misery will never end, it is important to realize that crises are usually temporary. Decisions often, a sense of change, unexpected positive events. Remember: Suicide is a permanent solution is a temporary problem. Give yourself the time it takes for things to change and the pain subsides. Even if he does not feel like it right now,
There are many people who want to support you at this difficult time. They do not try to argue with you about how you feel unhappy or you just get rid of him. They will not judge you. They will just listen to you and for you. Please refer to someone. Do it now. If you promised yourself 24 hours a day or a week in step number 1, use this time to tell someone what is happening to you. You can call a close friend, family member, minister, rabbi, doctor or therapist. It does not matter who it is, until he to whom you trust and who are likely to listen with empathy and compassion. Even if Youve decided who you can trust to talk to, recognizing your suicidal thoughts to another person can be difficult. Tell the person exactly what you're talking about yourself. If you have a suicide plan, explain it to them. Phrases like, I can not take it anymore and Im done vague and do not show how serious things really are. Tell someone you trust what you think about suicide. If it is too difficult for you to talk, to try to burn it and pass a note to people you trust. Or send them by e-mail or text, and sit with them until they read it. What to do if you do not feel understood? If you do not feel the person you have chosen to speak to understand, to tell someone else, or call a suicide crisis hotline. There are many people who understand. Do not let one bad experience stop you from finding someone who can help. Remember that while it may seemas if the suicidal thoughts and feelings will never end, thisis never a permanent condition. You'll feel much better. At the same time, there are several ways to help cope with suicidal thoughts and feelings. Talk with someone every day, preferably face to face. Even though you feel like a conclusion, ask trusted friends and acquaintances to spend time with you. Or continue to call the crisis hotline and talk about their feelings. Make a safety plan. Develop a set of measures that you can follow during the suicidal crisis. It should include contact numbers for the doctor or therapist, as well as friends and family members to help in an emergency. Make a written schedule for yourself every day and stick to it no matter what. Keep a regular routine asmuch possible, even when your feelings seemout control. Come out to the sun or in the nature of at least 30 minutes a day. Exercise as vigorously as it is safe for you. To
get the maximum benefit, the goal within 30 minutes of exercise a day. But you can start small. Three 10-minute bursts of activity can have a positive effect on mood. Make time for things that bring you joy. Even if very few things

bring you pleasure at the moment to force yourself to do what you are used to. Remember, your personal goals. You may have always wanted to go to a certain place, read a book, own a pet, moving to another place, to learn a new hobby, volunteer, go back to school, or a family. Write down your personal goals. To be alone. Loneliness can make suicidal thoughts even worse. Find a friend or family member. If you do not have one, pick up the phone and call a crisis of confidence. Alcohol and drugs. Drugs and alcohol can increase depression, inhibit your problem solving ability, and can make you act impulsively. Doing things that make you feel worse. Listening to sad music, looking at some photos, read old letters, or visits to the tomb close all increase negative feelings. Thoughts of suicide and other negative thoughts. Try not to become
busy thoughts of suicide, as this can make them even stronger. Donta
thinking negative thoughts and review. Find entertainment. Give yourself a break from >> << suicidal thoughts can help, even if its for a short time. Even if your suicidal thoughts and feelings on the wane, to get help for yourself. Experiencing this kind of >> << emotional pain itself is a traumatic experience. Find a support group or therapist can
be very helpful in reducing the chances that you'll feel suicidal in the future. You can
get help and direction from a physician or by the organizations listed in the relevant section of our links. Identification of triggers or situations that lead to feelings of despair or generate thoughts of suicide, such as the anniversary of the loss, alcohol, stress or relationship. Find ways to avoid these places, people or situations. Good luck. Eat right, do not skip meals and get plenty of sleep. Exercise is also key: it releases endorphins, reduces stress and promotes emotional well-being. Build your support network. Surround yourself with positive influence and people who make you feel good. You're more invested in other people and your community, the more you should losewhich help you stay positive and restoration paths. The development of new activities and interests. Find new hobbies, volunteer work or a job that gives you a sense of meaning and purpose. When you do things you will find a run, you'll feel better about themselves and feeling despair are less likely to return. Learn how to cope with stress in a healthy way of life. Find healthy ways to keep stress levels
check, including exercise, meditation, using sensory strategies to relax, practicing
simple breathing exercises, and challenging self-defeating thoughts. Authors: Jaelline Jaffe, Ph.D., Lawrence Robinson, and Jeanne Segal, Ph.D.
Last updated: January 2012. .